If we are trying to be elegant I would advise against taking up extreme sports. My friend 'V' recently went BMXing- how elegant did she look with her black eye when she fell off? Not very!

E is for engagement rings...how many is too many? Start a collection, even if you never have to sell them you can have the stones re-set into a necklace or bracelet.

Under E we must find a little time for Erotica- both art and literature- read some Nancy Friday and discover a world of fantasies or create some erotic art yourself.