D is for Dressing up for sex. It's fun and free (if you make your outfits)! May as well give it a go. It doesn't have to be a particular theme (although I favour French maid, nurse and dominatrix). It works just as well in a see-through nightie or even just knickers and heels. And what's stopping the blokes? Get your man to be a Dr.Satisfaction or a Fireman Sam, he could even be Burglar Bill and surprise you in the bath! Don't be shy because D is all about daring and desire.

DHA skincare from Japan- gorgeous products based around olive oil- the great thing is you get free samples each month if you sign up to the magazine. I'm loving the cleansing powder and soap.

DIVINE GODDESS_DITA VON TEESEI really can't fault her style; that alabaster complexion, scarlet lips and air of grown-up sensuality is to die for.

D is for depressed, if your'e feeling a little dismal go to Wicks hardware store. No seriously they have the funniest section called door furniture- how elegant is that a word for handles???!!! Makes me laugh every time!

Dirty nails- quicker to polish them than wash up!

Dirty talk- do it do it do it! Always use darling, or a similar term of endearment- don't muddle up the names for Christ's sake!

Dirty texts- encourage these and send them back...WARNING don't send pictures that show your face. A glimpse of your curves is far more discreet yet still desirable.

Dirty underwear- some men like the thought of this. Good to know that if we're ever destitute we can sell our knickers on ebay!